After listening to the song 'It's not you it's me' (check out todd kerns @ www.toddkerns.com) for the millionth time and continually talking to girls (and a few guys for that matter), I wonder if the modern relationship is really a relationship. Or all we all just friends with certain benefits with certain friends? In life do we pick certain friends of the opposite sex to fit certain needs: one who you can talk to, one you are attracted to, one you could marry, one you can goof around with, one who 'gets' you. In the busy modern world do we really have the time and lifestyle for 'old fashioned' relationships?