I don't know who is posting anonymously but I don't like to share everything on here. It's hard to say whether this friend is lost or not. We have a lot in common but it seems like the bond we share is weakening. I suppose that friendship runs in cycles...sometimes you are so close and other times things just come up and your lives to just fit together... the close times will come back. Also I never specified which gender I was relating to. If you need to talk to me send me an e-mail or leave your name so I can contact you.